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PLECCA

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United States
MFT - Writer - Poet
July 3, 2020
 

Couples that manage to stay together have a tendency to argue in an effort to reach an understanding. Those who are unsuccessful at resolving their differences tend to argue to win and defeat each other. All relationships eventually end when you both feel defeated. @PLECCA

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July 2, 2020
 

That relationship needed to end so you could end that cycle of losing yourself in someone that never feared losing you. Those friendships needed to fade away so you could find a social circle where you are valued and appreciated. That job needed to end so you could stop feeling a sense of dread in the mornings. Everything that ends becomes the beginning of your journey towards happiness. @PLECCA

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July 1, 2020
 

Some people leave in search of the love they do not find within themselves because this kind of self-love cannot be found while trying to love someone else. @PLECCA

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June 30, 2020
 

The mess you are experiencing now will eventually lead you towards a path of wisdom and clarity. The pain you are feeling is life’s way of letting you know that you must make some changes to get your life back in order. @PLECCA

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June 28, 2020
 

Sometimes, we become stuck in the same routine and seek comfort in the way things are now. It feels the safest and most familiar to you. When you tend to see the world darker than it truly is, a part of you starts to believe there is no love, friendship or passion that can bring any light back into your life. We remain alone and discontent only when we have given up on our desire for love, connection and something to be passionate about. @PLECCA

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June 24, 2020
 

We tend to love others with great force at a young age because we believe loving someone more will cause them to love us back with the same intensity. The truth is, it does not matter how much you love anyone if they are unable to receive it. @PLECCA

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June 23, 2020
 

Couples who are successful in the long-term are able to focus their attention on each other’s thoughts and ideas. They demonstrate a high level of interest and respect when communicating what they feel. Their conversations flow smoothly and they constantly motivate one another. The passion they share keeps them connected and they always feel like a part of the same team. @PLECCA

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June 22, 2020
 

Sometimes, when someone loves you more than you love yourself, it will feel smothering and overwhelming to you. You may fear it and decide to walk away from somebody that appears to be desperate for you. The truth is, it is impossible for you to embrace this type of love if you have never even shown yourself that kind of deep unconditional love. @PLECCA

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June 21, 2020
 

You will find love once it has become easy for you to love yourself. When you are one with your heart, you can feel more deeply and connect with the one who can love you like you do. @PLECCA

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June 18, 2020
 

When there is no trust and it is just lust, your connection will be begin to rust and the false sense of love you initially experienced will disintegrate faster than dust. @PLECCA

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June 17, 2020
 

Those who truly know how to love cannot turn their love on and off as easily as lovers that stop loving. They connect with others on a deeper level than those who possess this switch. People who are incapable of loving deeply are able to disconnect and turn their feelings off whenever they feel off. @PLECCA

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June 16, 2020
 

Unhappiness within you exists when you live your life looking for things that are wrong around you. When we focus on everything that is missing in our lives, we continually seek out toxic people and things in search of fulfillment. @PLECCA

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June 14, 2020
 

The best way to get rid of sadness is through becoming angry at yourself. You must become so angry about losing control over your emotions that you no longer allow everyone and everything around you dictate how you feel. The angrier you become, the faster  your repressed emotions will give you the clarity and strength you need to be happy again. @PLECCA

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June 12, 2020
 

And it may be that you are not bad at relationships, maybe you are simply bad at choosing who to be in a relationship with. @PLECCA

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June 9, 2020
 

Change and growth will always require you to go through a period of discomfort. But you must understand that out of chaos comes order, out of order comes peace and out of peace comes happiness. @PLECCA

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June 7, 2020
 

Love is only love to you if you are able to perceive it as love. Someone can love you with all their heart, but if you think their affection is being given to you out of desperation, you will believe they are simply seeking attention from you. @PLECCA

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June 6, 2020
 

People perceive others as they appear to them in the moment. You take all of the attention away from your positive traits when you express negativity. How you present yourself in stressful situations will lead to your success or failure in life and love. You either attract or repel people with your behavior. @PLECCA

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June 3, 2020
 

Will we ever become united without focusing on our differences and the color of our skin? Will true love take over and ever win? Will society stand up to help achieve this mission? Will we ever love each other without preconditions? Will we ever reach the point where we can live and breathe freely without preconceived suspicions? @PLECCA

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May 29, 2020
 

Narcissists are not good at loving you, they are good at convincing you their love should be enough for you to continue to love them. @PLECCA

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May 28, 2020
 

And I know that there is thunder making noise within your heart that makes you wonder from the start, will you stay together or commit a blunder and fall apart. @PLECCA

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May 28, 2020
 

If you are only in a relationship until you have received enough from it, it was not true love, it was an opportunity to drain someone out of the love they offered you. @PLECCA

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May 24, 2020
 

Once you gain clarity in your mind and peace in your heart, the path towards your soulmate becomes more apparent. But if you continue to hold on to many toxic emotions, your heart and mind will struggle to see into anybody’s soul clearly. @PLECCA

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May 21, 2020
 

Your idea of a relationship or marriage can be completely different than that of your partners. They may be satisfied with having a companion, someone to laugh with and enjoy your own interests separately, but you may require passion, intensity, mutual interests and deep connection, something you will never be able to establish staying together. @PLECCA

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May 20, 2020
 

Do not turn to blame all men or women after a breakup. Everyone else is not at fault for your failed relationships. The harsh truth is that you are the only one responsible for choosing to love people who continue to fail you. @PLECCA

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May 19, 2020
 

When there is genuine love between you, you are able to make it under any conditions. Whether you are both smiling under the sun or frowning in the rain, you continue to grow closer together after every storm and your connection becomes even stronger. @PLECCA

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May 14, 2020
 

The love we fail to receive as children transforms into the love we crave as adults and the love we are shown during our childhood becomes the love we embrace in adulthood. @PLECCA

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May 12, 2020
 

It will be difficult for you to love anyone in the long-term if you would rather start thinking about leaving after an argument than look for ways to resolve your differences and reach a peaceful compromise together. @PLECCA

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May 11, 2020
 

And if our paths never crossed, I would have never known what heartache felt like, how lust can entrap you or ever discovered what infatuation can do to blind us. I now understand that no matter how strong the attraction is, it does not always lead to love. @PLECCA

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May 7, 2020
 

And now I know how fragile a connection between two people can truly be, how one day you can imagine a life together and the next it can all just become a fantasy, a dream that only comes to life while you are asleep. @PLECCA

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May 5, 2020
 

People who strictly focus on the parts of you that are imperfect will always find a way to dismiss who you are and their heart will forever struggle to understand how to love your soul. @PLECCA

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