Find Your Anchor!
Bigger than Your Jobs,
Bigger than your Hobbies,
Bigger than your past times,
And even Bigger than your Family,
Find that Anchor for Yourself
Make it a Centre of "why I matter?"
Then Build your Life around that Centre
That Centre is Your Roots &
That Centre is your Destination
It's both Your Beginning & Ending
But You Need to Have an Anchor!!
When You have to forgive yourself for being nice to someone,
That they deserved not even a dot of it.
Shared these words on Lettrs three years back, felt like posting them again coz that's my feeling these days
"no courage to move forward & no strength to move backwards.. existing between Heavens and Earth and unable to connect with either"
Never ever make the mistake of Accepting the Shit,
You in your Vulnerable times!!
You entertain the Idea of keeping
People as Options in Life , the same way
As I entertain the Idea of keeping Perspectives!!!
There are two kinds of Blessed People in the World,
Those who can see the Good in others &
Those who can feel the Good in others!
My emotions are forever subservient to my Principals!
My feelings lose against my Morals!
My impulses give in to my Goals!
My desires are won over by my Indivuality!
Throughout his life,
he tried really hard not to "miss out" on anything around him..
In the End, he missed out on himself!
Perhaps he knew my heart better than I did...
So each time he put up with my madness with a smile brightly lit..
From my life he has now made a Sudden exit.
Not knowing, what I was doing..
And I realise
All this time.....
it was not him I was trying to ignore..
It was my feelings that I had put to snore
I hate myself for hurting him so bad
Arrogantly would shut my eyes and not see his hurt
Not realising the damage it did to his fragile heart
Without a word he leaves silently
While I stand here too shocked,
My heart crying bitterly
Nothing but regret
He would smile with my smile and would cry with my crying.
What was I thinking?
I can feel my throat choking
Choices made out of Insecurity & Fear seldom lead to a fulfilling life. And Gradually One learns to live with the pain , like a zombie , slave to the routine.
Our Decisions must be a reflection of our Higher Purpose, they must align with our Hopes.
Our Choices should be made on the helm of our Dreams and not just to fit in.
You didn't come into the world to just fit in , you came here to discover yourself, assert your uniqueness and in turn discovering the meaning of this Gift called Life!!
She closed the book and kissed her daughter on her forehead and wished her sweet dreams. She turned off the light and left the room.
The little seven year old waited anxiously for her mother to close the door.
In her brain she has a complete "to do list" that she must performs diligently before she goes to sleep.
She is now quite well rehearsed at estimating how long it will take for her mother to go to sleep. She waits for a while in her bed praying and hoping she is not too late. "they would be waiting for me" she mutters to herself.
This is a ritual she performs every night before she doze off to sleep.
You see, she has made any friends in the house. No matter w...
A few days back I had this vivid dream.
I am in a car sitting at the backseat. And the car stops at a signal.
As is usually the case in our country, you often see kids aged around seven to fourteen selling stuff. Or they would be holding dusters or other car wash sprays in their hands. They wait for the cars to stop and offer their services whether asked for or not in the hope of earning a few shellings. A form of begging some call it.
As our car stops, two kids one aged around 7 years old and the other aged around approach the car. Each of them selling some different item that I didn't catch the glimpse of. For some reason the younger one among them catches my eye. He is looki...
It took me a long while to make sense of it and One day it finally hit me.....
All of it is just an Act!!
How do you get rid of someone who claims of really really liking you,
But You yourself really dislike the person or simply don't wish to have a relationship with them.
And they are just being stubborn in an immature way and not letting go?
And because of this they are a constant source of annoyance and stress in your life?
Kindly share your opinions and any advice in the comments below.
Thank you :)
The only True Knowledge is One
That " Delivers" when it gets applied
Close your eyes and take a deep breath.
I hope you never let go of what I am about to share with you now as they are the essence you need to hold onto,
Never ever ever ever settle for less than what your Heart desires and what your aspirations Deserve, no matter the circumstances.
Never Stop believing in your Dreams and working Hard for them, they are Yours to Protect.
Never make Bets with your Gut Instinct.
if it says No, believe it, do not give in to fancy words or velvety gestures.
And most importanty, never forget that those who truly care never make a show of it.
They do it without romantising anything.
Your Destiny demands Courage from you.
It's Ironic how Subtle shifts in perspective leave Indelible Marks on Character !!!
Real People are Dangerous!
You enter their World at their disposition
But leave their World at your own Will
They let you In,
And mirror back your True self
They let you go
And you know the reason why
She plays Safe
Not because She's Scared,
She is far too Precious
To be swallowed by Shallowness !
I do not wish to Lose myself in the Sympathy of another,
I wish to Discover myself in the Innocence of another!
When You Put Your Heart into Something, it Never Fails You !!
Whether there was Progress or Not is Immaterial
You mistook my attention for interest
It's my instinct, nothing personal
You mistook my kindness for liking
It's my grooming, nothing personal
You mistook my niceness as exclusivity
It's my habit, nothing personal
You mistook my genuiness as invitation
It was just a test, nothing personal!
Once in a while you meet someone
Who makes you realise
Of all you can possibly Be,
And what you Absolutely needs to
Stay away from, including Them!!
*Note to Myself *
When feel Lost...
Just remember to always look Forward.
That's the only direction to finding your way out of chaos.
Leave the Past in the past, including all the characters and all the memories.
No Solace is ever gonna reach out from past.
The only hope of any Solace is to look Forward.
Making Her the Object of His affection & devotion
While She belomgs to Universe
to Call Her his
While She is her Own Star
Making Her centre of his World
While She is the Light touching so many Worlds
Believing he had her for just a moment
While She gives a shout out to Her Stars
Still Needing Her
While She left long ago journeying ahead, having faith in Herself like never before.